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What if it is possible?

An unquestioned clarity that you are living the right life for you.

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What if it is possible?

Mastery of tools and ability to address and resolve obstacles.

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What if it is possible?

Experiencing a deep belief and trust in self.

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What if it is possible?

Creating new levels of success based on what you really want.

Inquiry changes how you perceive, understand and inspire.

In business and in life, success is designed by how well you know yourself and how willing you are to shift and expand your perspective.

Do you have the courage to do the inward journey?  Have you accomplished a high level of success in life?  Measure the balance of your current success: Are you living the life you truly want? Are your work, home, spiritual and emotional lives in balance and inspiring?

Or are you confronting challenges or relationship issues – either business or personal? Is some aspect of your life not working?

An organic, energizing process.

Inquiry Method is a process for identifying and removing obstacles to personal and professional success, letting go of past ideas, stories and perspectives about ourselves and others, and for mastering our ability to connect with our source, our inner compass.

At it’s mastery level, Inquiry Method is a shift in lifestyle and perspective that takes you from reacting to life into developing an astute ability to be curiously engaged in life and cultivating possibilities.

As you move through the Inquiry Method process you find that what you create in life, the people you draw in and the circumstances you choose will resonate and mirror what you actually really want.

Coaching, leadership, team training.

Inquiry Method with Kyle Mercer offers individual coaching programs, leadership training, corporate team renewal and much more. We invite you to explore the options, call us and take your next step.

Most of our clients never thought they needed a coach. Now they never want to be without one.

Using Inquiry Method you explore who you are and what you want to be – both professionally and personally. An exceptionally skilled business/life coach, Kyle Mercer’s coaching and retreat experiences guide you to ascend to the level where you really want to live your life.

What are Inquiry Method clients up to in the world?
They include:

philanthropy

A successful scientist and businesswoman who is launching multiple philanthropic ventures.

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balance

A business professional who is balancing life and family while building luxury brands and making international films.

balance
heart

An accomplished investment banker who is finding the heart – and true fulfillment – in the world of investment banking.

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success

A talented interior designer who has stepped up to the “A” list and discovered a new level of personal and professional success.

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inspire

A CEO who changed careers and now inspires world-changing startup entrepreneurs.

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new horizons

A top-grossing dentist who is overcoming a recent disability and breaking out into consulting and professional speaking.

new horizons

From the Blog

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Foundations for Inquiry

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Inquiry Method is the process of freeing ourselves from all ideas about how things, people, or we should be and getting interested in how they are. From this understanding we have the opportunity to author (to create) our lives based on “what is,” rather than on what we think should be.
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Wait! Don't Throw It Out

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Most of us in our culture are perfectionists, we are taught to judge. As we look around we think this is good, this is bad. We may get more sophisticated and judge “this is better”, “that could use some improvement”, “that should not be like that”. We can also turn it on ourselves and judge “if only I was”, “that was stupid”, “I am too…”, “I am amazing”, “I know how that should be”, ... And we turn it on others too, family, spouse, kids, everyone… From a philosophy of judgment everything falls on a scale from good to bad. hen we judge from the good-bad spectrum the stronger we believe in it, the stronger the energy is in either direction. This is how extremism is created. This is the source of all war, conflict, argument, and division.
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A Simple Life Changing Practice

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We spend a tremendous amount of time and energy avoiding feelings. Sometime when you are triggered, simply stop and feel what you are experiencing. Instead of justifying, avoiding, explaining, talking, drinking, exercising, checking out, arguing, complaining, criticizing, sleeping, watching TV, eating, having sex, etc… just feel what you are feeling. Close your eyes, feel your physical body, where do you feel the energy?
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The Veils

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There are two aspects to the Inquiry Method perspective. One has to do with our external orientation, our interaction with life. This is the externalized aspect of inquiry. When we use inquiry to interact with life, we approach the world with curiosity and wonder.
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How to Be a Good Listener and Friend

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Probably the number one complaint I get from people who have learned Inquiry Method is that none of their friends know how to listen to them. It is a contrast because before Inquiry Method, they were just used to it. In most conversations, one person talks a little bit about themselves, or what they think or saw or heard, then the other person responds about themselves and what they think or saw or heard.
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Experience, Intention & Interpretation

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We often get confused between intention (outcome) and process. “I want them to do this” is not an intention; it is a process that you think will get you what you want. Intention is more like, “I want to feel good about the weekend,” or “I want to be successful at this job.”
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Where Do I Look?

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Approaching life through the Inquiry Method provides a basic place to begin with any issue that may arise. We are tempted to say, “This person did this” or “They shouldn’t have done that,” or we try to explain how or why it is not about us. We are tempted to explain or defend ourselves.
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Living an Ideal Life (part 2)

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One of the ways I construct my ideal life is with blocking. I begin with an awareness of what I most want to do, and then I use my calendar to block out the time to do those things.
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Living Your Ideal Life

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The other day a client told me that she was celebrating her birthday, and that when she tried to think of something special to do, she found that her regular daily routine could not be improved upon.